金針銀耳的部落格 Movieholic

她是家中的三女, 上有二個家姐, 下才有弟弟。  所以自自然然地缺關愛, 忌妒且爭。

少時某天她的功課和美術都做得好, 滿心歡喜拿回家給父親大人看。  一心想得到注目。不過又是失落, 父親大人讚賞也沒有, 批評也沒有; 因為無閑一顧。  這個病就叫:“心靈創傷症”, 加重了「多餘」和被遺棄的感覺!! 人就是那麽脆弱。  心靈碎了。  那麽, 以後也提不起勁了, 因為太傷了。

有些孩子較自我，不去這樣博得父留意的，就不會有這樣的經歷和心理不平衡的思想陷阱。

未結婚之先, 先問: 若離婚會如何?

未拍拖之先, 首先想著: 若失戀會如何?

所以, 就流行了同居。

Never apologize for how you feel. No one can control how they feel. The sun doesn’t apologize for being the sun. The rain doesn’t say sorry for falling. Feelings just are.

Don’t ever feel bad for making a decision that upsets other people. You are not responsible for their happiness. You are responsible for your happiness.

原來詩人是念念不忘

他寫的是反話:

偶然      徐志摩

psych2go:

The person you’re meant to be with will never have to be chased, begged or given an ultimatum.

要每天每天

日復一日

活得好

If a person wants to be a part of your life, they will make an obvious effort to do so. Think twice before reserving a space in your heart for people who do not make an effort to stay.

The moment you feel like you have to prove your worth to someone is the moment you absolutely and utterly have to walk away.